Characteristics of Resilient People

Characteristics of Resilient People Theories Personality Psychology Print Characteristics of Resilient People By Kendra Cherry facebook twitter Kendra Cherry, MS, is an author, educational consultant, and speaker focused on helping students learn about psychology. Learn about our editorial policy Kendra Cherry Updated on September 29, 2019 Hinterhaus Productions/Digital Vision/Getty Images More in Theories Personality Psychology Myers-Briggs Type Indicator Behavioral Psychology Cognitive Psychology Developmental Psychology Social Psychology Biological Psychology Psychosocial Psychology While people vary dramatically in the coping skills they use when confronting a crisis, researchers have identified some key characteristics of resilience.?? Many of these skills can be developed and strengthened, which can improve your ability to deal with lifes setbacks. Resilient people are aware of situations, their own emotional reactions and the behavior of those around them. In order to manage feelings, it is essential to understand what is causing them and why. By remaining aware, resilient people can maintain control of a situation and think of new ways to tackle problems. Another characteristic of resilience is the understanding that life is full of challenges. While we cannot avoid many of these problems, we can remain open, flexible, and willing to adapt to change. Here are some other characteristics of people who have strong coping skills. A Sense of Control Do you perceive yourself as having control over your own life? Or do you blame outside sources for failures and problems? Generally, resilient people tend to have what psychologists call an internal locus of control.?? They believe that the actions they take will affect the outcome of an event. Of course, some factors are simply outside of our personal control, such as natural disasters. While we may be able to put some blame on external causes, it is important to feel as if we have the power to make choices that will affect our situation, our ability to cope, and our future. Strong Problem-Solving Skills Problem-solving skills are essential. When a crisis emerges, resilient people are able to spot the solution that will lead to a safe outcome. In danger situations, people sometimes develop tunnel vision. They fail to note important details or take advantages of opportunities. Resilient individuals are able to calmly and rationally look at the problem and envision a successful solution. Strong Social Connections Whenever youre dealing with a problem, it is important to have people who can offer support. Talking about the challenges you are facing can be an excellent way to gain perspective, look for new solutions, or simply express your emotions. Friends, family members, co-workers, and online support groups can all be potential sources of social connectivity.?? Identifying as a Survivor, Not a Victim When dealing with any potential crisis, it is essential to view yourself as a survivor. Avoid thinking like a victim of circumstance and instead, look for ways to resolve the problem. While the situation may be unavoidable, you can still stay focused on a positive outcome. Being Able to Ask for Help While being resourceful is an important part of resilience, it is also essential to know when to ask for help. During a crisis, people can benefit from the help of psychologists and counselors specially trained to deal with crisis situations. Other potential sources of assistance include: Books: Reading about people who have experienced and overcome a similar problem can be both motivating and good for ideas on how to cope.Online Message Boards: Online communities can provide continual support and a place to talk about issues with people who have been in a similar situation.Support Groups: Attending support group meetings is a great way to talk about the challenges youre facing and find a network of people who can provide compassion and support.Psychotherapy:?? If you are having trouble coping with a crisis situation, consulting a qualified mental health professional can help you confront the problem, identify your strengths, and develop new coping skills. 4 Ways to Boost Resilience During Tough Times